When You Two Don't Agree — How to pick one plan together and share the nights

For 0–48 months. A talk you can have tonight, in twenty minutes.

You want to start on Monday. They cannot stand the crying and say so at 2am, in the hallway, in a whisper that is not really a whisper. Now there are two problems and one of them is not the baby.

Instead: you sit down with the exact words for the four talks that really come up, agree ahead of time who does what at 3am, and stop undoing each other's nights.

Includes what to say during the disagreement itself, a one-page plan you fill in together, and what to do when one of you needs a night off.